When divorce happens before motherhood

January is called "Divorce Month" by many legal professionals.

Nationwide court data shows divorce filings and inquiries spike in January—a 25-30% increase compared with other months.

Many couples delay filing during the holidays, when family obligations and travel take priority. The holidays can also magnify existing relationship tensions, sometimes to a breaking point.

A new year symbolizes new beginnings, prompting many to reflect and take action when a relationship isn't working.

I experienced the heartbreak of divorce and starting over.

My romantic relationships would often unravel when I finally confronted the nagging question: "Do I see myself having children with this person?"

For women whose marriages end without children but who still long to become mothers, divorce often opens the door to a flood of emotions and urgent questions.

What do I do now?
Why did I stay so long?
Does this mean I've missed my chance at motherhood?

If you're divorced or divorcing and still holding onto that dream, know this: you can still fulfill your dream of motherhood.

It may be time to explore new possibilities.

That's why I'm hosting a virtual panel event on Monday, January 26: “Unwrapping New Possibilities for Motherhood.”

In this session, relationship expert Mina Yang will share her work helping independent women find love on their terms.

And if motherhood feels more urgent than finding love, I will be joined by panelists Ayo Haynes, MBA Arsiak Vartenian, Ivy Margulies, Psy.D., Dr. Susan Fox to explore ways to become a mother—thoughtfully, intentionally, and with support.

Registration will open next week.

Your story may not look the way you once imagined, but it can still be beautiful.

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